Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Restraints


As the shibari style of rope bondage becomes more and more popular, with its ability to create visually stunning designs, and intricate patterns, quite a number of minimalist have shown their fondness for bondage by returning to simpler roots. Foregoing the ropes they have in their collections, for the efficiency and effectiveness resulting from the usage of other restraint systems during play time. These physical restraints provide a beauty all their own, take no time to set up, and offer users the ability to immerse themselves in their fetish, especially so when coupled with blindfolds and ball gags.


From beginner to expert, the inexperienced and the adept can both benefit from the consistency and the effortless quickness of body restraints. As history advances, the techniques and designs of restraint devices advances as well. From, simple loops in nylon rope, to silk sashes, and fur and leather cuffs; the versatility of restraints has greatly distanced itself from the hardcore method of handcuffing, even though a good cuffing never gets old.

Easy to use and set up, there are a number of free standing bondage support systems; prepared so that they are easily set up, slipped on, adjusted, and simple to lock into place.  Some go under your mattress and can remain there. Many of these under the bed sets are easy to keep hidden, with removable cuffs, or lashes which can tuck right under your bed.

There are certain restraint systems which bind the limbs close together, and others which keep the limbs spread apart. To bind together, or to separate? Maybe keep just the wrist bound, with a ball gag, for good measure? Maybe just the ankles bound in a sash, or possibly, Restraint Wrap? You retain the option to bind two limbs, or more, whether they’re near or far. From the sheer delight of Self Bondage, to all of the naughty intricacies of couples play, the possibilities for variety and expressiveness begin the moment you get your Gear, and the fun never ends.

Whether you’re using a premade kit, such as a hogtie kit, or an under the bed system, let us not forget the sensuality which is rope. While some forgo rope due to practicality, or safety concerns, mastering the art of tying knots in rope takes practice and creativity once you’ve stepped away from pre constructed template. .  If you’re using silk, nylon, jute, or cotton, the fascination with being bound, or binding, by rope, sash, or tape is in the preparation. And preparation is key.

If you look up rope bondage how-tos, or nearly any bondage method for the matter, you’ll find articles depicting the human nervous and circulatory systems. The information usually contains a myriad of details about the nerves and veins, and how cutting off is to be avoided; also showing how to do so properly, while maintaining many aesthetics. They’ll also tell you to keep a pair of Safety Scissors handy in case of instances in which the bindings need to be quickly removed.

Studying adult works such as the shibari, and mulling over article after article, detailing the vast bound position possibilities, may not be fore you. Maybe you've done all of the research and you’re ready for a bit of fun? Couples can bond over adult games while bondage is on their mind. Bondage Seduction is a game in which you can tell your friends who wanted to hang out later, that you’re, “tied up”.


But What if you’re trying to skip the knots, and the, well, restraints, of the restraining systems? While there are some limitations with rope, or pre-made systems, Pleasure tape provides a remarkably easy approach to decorative bondage. These wraps, like their rope cousins, come in a wide variety of colors, and they also add a sleek sexiness to the practicing of bondage, and they look even more enticing when against bondage furniture. Whether for play, pleasure, punishment, training, or something else, you’re bound (get it?) to have an excellent time mastering your new fantasy. 

Monday, November 18, 2013

Penis Pumps


So many men are looking for that edge over the competition.  Like the six-million dollar man, he wants to be better, stronger, faster… and bigger!  And then there was the advent of the enlargement pump.  Penis pumps, or, enlargement pumps, all work on the same principle.  The penis is inserted into a vacuum chamber that seals against the man’s pelvis.  Vacuum is applied, creating a pressure differential between the blood in the penis and the outside atmosphere.  The blood vessels expand, allowing more blood into the penis.  And blood in the penis, as we all know, is what makes a man big and hard.  The theory behind vacuum pumps is simply this:  More blood = more penis.  The effect is temporary, but impressive.

Enhancement pumps usually consist of an acrylic tube and a hand pump or electric pump.  The Acrylic tube will the vacuum tube on one end, and often some sort of rubber or silicone sleeve (or ring) on the open end. The sleeve is used to create a seal against the body. Recently, these sleeves have been modified to take on an anatomical resemblance  Some pumps will also have a vacuum gauge that allows you to monitor the pressure being applied to your member.  And all pumps will have a pressure releif valve.  Some tubes will also have graduated hash marks, allowing the user to monitor the growth of their penis.  A few pumps are coming equipped with massagers to give an added element of stimulation to the experience.  Some pumps are designed for shower use, and can also be used with a hands-free harness.

Pump with GaugeAlthough mostly thought of as an enhancement device, penis pumps are an easy, non-invasive treatment for erectile dysfunction.  The vacuum is activated via hand or electric pump, then a constriction band is applied at the base of the penis (similar to a cock ring) to keep the blood from flowing back out of the penis. In the medical field they are often referred to as “vacuum constriction devices”.   Many urologists will recommend them when good ‘ol Viagra is ineffective. 

Please be careful when using a pump.  Always keep moderation in mind.  Excessive vacuum and/or prolonged use can cause serious vascular damage to your penis.  Also, if you ever use a cock ring with your pump, be careful to NOT use a metal cock ring.  The penis can often swell and the ring may have to be cut off.  And nobody wants that.

Many pumps can be accessorized with some interesting options.  And don’t forget your toy cleaner.

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Men’s Underwear

Often times we men overlook some of the softer luxuries in life.  And, as far as I’m concerned, “silky underbritches” is due for some serious contemplation.  Yeah, yeah.  We’re too manly to talk about underwear.  “I’m a real man and only wear burlap… like my daddy before me.”  Not me, baby.  “Give me something fun under my business suit”, that’s what I say!

Men’s wear can be classified in four different categories: Lounge wear, Boxers, Briefs, and Thongs/pouches.  All of which come in handy for just the right purpose.

I’m more of a boxer man, myself.  I like the comfort and roominess.  Briefs are great for when I’m more active.  I must admit, though, I’m a bit reluctant to strap on nuthin’ but a pouch.  I keep my car and house fully insured, and I guess I feel the same way about my bits and pieces.  There is another benefit of the roominess of a good boxer.  Every now and then it’s nice to find someone’s hand rummaging around under your waistband.  It’s good to have space for them to explore, dont'cha know.

Wonder Bikini BriefThe bikini brief runs the gambit from good coverage to bad, bad play time!  Want something uncommon?  Check out Foxy’s Stretch Lace Wonder Bikini from Male Power.  Polyester and Spandex, machine washable, partner “wow”able! Show up with a pair of these on and you’re going home with a prize.

And my favorite is the marriage of boxers and briefs, the Boxer Brief.  The security of a brief with the leg length of a boxer gives me both comfort and security.  And the longer leg keeps the fabric from bunching up in places we don’t want it to go.  Nothing classier than picking a wad of cotton out of your crack in the middle of a cocktail party or sales call, eh?  The boxer brief fixes that little problem right up.

Banboo Lounge PantsI must sing the praises of a pair of nice loungers.  Just the right thing for a long weekend “staying in” with the little lady.  Just slip them on, pad down to the kitchen for a cup of coffee and a quick peek out the door for the Sunday paper, and back up for Sudoku and snuggling.

Talk about breathability, the mesh pouch by Adonis leaves little to the imagination… and much to the breeze.  Designed more for show than utility, it serves its purpose quite impressively.  Drop your robe with one of these little strips of cloth winking in the candlelight, and your partner won’t be able to keep her/his hands off of you.  Champaign not included.

Are you into saving the planet?  Foxy’s Toybox offers an impressive line of bamboo lounge pants, boxers, briefs, t-shirts and thongs.  They are a blend of 95% sustainable bamboo and 5% spandex.  Comfort, reliability, and ecological maturity… You gotta love it!