Lelo Products

The personal massager has come a long way since its inception. From the exciting vibrator to the tantalizing Rabbit, modern designs are more aesthetically pleasing, have motors which are quieter, yet more powerful, and give you toys that are tailored to be anatomically superior to their predecessors.

The clunky discomfort, and clumsiness, associated with massagers from just a few years ago has been replaced with a sleeker, more comfortable body and improved luxury. The availability of sleeker figures, better developed lines and curves, and technologically advanced materials has made for many of these new, quieter, toys being the star of the toy box and nightstand drawer.

Lelo Tor II

An important development, for a few of these toy designs, is that some adult massager companies have devised handles which now feature a proper grip. Along with their purposefulness, these grips  provide better control and ease of use. Your control buttons are located in an optimal location, so that you don’t have to leave your favorite position in order to adjust your pleasure preferences. Made so that they are pleasurable to hold and appealing to the touch, the finer of today’s toys have been crafted to give the users priority in comfort and ease of use.

Lelo Massage Oil

One of the most outstanding massager designs hails from Sweden. Made of high grade silicone, and packing a gold plated motor, the Lelo massager comes with an incredible one year warranty and a ten year guarantee. This bestselling line has new and improved versions which capitalized on their original designs. Quieter, providing that extra burst of power, and purely elegant, the new breed of Lelo will wow you with up to four hours of near silent vibrations.

Unparalleled quality allows Lelo to offer you a unique experience, whether it’s your first toy or the latest addition to your toy chest. The complete series for any collection, your Lelo will enthrall you with precise gratification. Made for singles or couples, Lelo products come with a variety of spine tingling settings to give you one of the most pleasurable experiences of your kinky life. Getting together later on? Trying out the Lelo Ida will be his and hers fun, and when paired with the Lelo Tor II you’re getting ready to experience immense satisfaction.

Lelo Gift Set

Lelo presents you with unique features in each toy. When it comes to using their toys, success comes when you aim for the pleasure your mind can conceive. Take it to bed, and the device is a lovely part of the experience. These rechargeable lovers, with waterproof options to indulge you in the bath and shower, means that the smooth shape of Lelo, is ready to please during every aspect of your day.

Powerful, easy to clean, quiet and simple to use, your Lelo will fulfill its purpose by fulfilling your play-time desires. Hard to please? Lelo has you covered with the Lelo Insignia Smart Wand. A deep, satisfying, spa quality massage is the strategy when it comes to the rechargeable toy that’s more powerful than any other. Fully waterproof, and built with the quality Lelo is renowned for, The Smart Wand is a top of the line toy, built to bring you the utmost satisfaction.

Electro-Stim

Electric stimulation, electro stim, or e-stim, has to be the most titillating thrill sweeping into bedrooms everywhere. The excitement peaks with every caress when you’re emitting electrifying tingles, or, aptly placed throbs of pleasure.  Engaging your partner has never provided such charge as when you’re using these shockingly enticing toys in your play repertoire.

E-stim provides fantastic muscle, as well as neurological stimulation. Pulses can be placed in the erogenous zones, just out of place to provide that perfect tease, or all over. Whether you’re a beginner or have plenty of experience, sharing a session, or venturing into the terrain alone, you’re going to find something fun for play time. What do you need to add to your collection? What do you have room for?  Foxy's Toybox will have it.

You’re looking for the total package. You want something to make an impression and set a precedent. You need something in your collection to enhance your interest in kink.  And maybe be one of the first introductions to somebody’s kinky lifestyle. You have an interest in something fun and want to provide the best experience when you’re opening yourself, and others to play.

Electro stim provides a range of intensity which ranges from barely kinky to, “please ma’am, may I have another”.  So, it’s an eye opening conversation piece, and it’s funny to see when people shy away from the idea. But, when the time comes to partake in a little shock therapy, it can be truly therapeutic.

If you’re easing your way into the electric stimulation scene, the Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Kit has a little bit of everything for the curious kinkster. The shock pads, and all accessories, attach to an easy to read LCD screen and its digital power control. The pads direct the electrical impulses to any body part on which you’ve placed them. The intensity is in the hands of the controller, and three pre-programmed pulse patterns deliver just the jolt you need.

Over one hundred pad to skin contact combinations means you have lots of freedom to discover the more delightful areas to stimulate. You can switch between the “Slow” or “Fast” settings, and adjust the control dial to set the strength of the therapy. There is a Cock Cage (which doubles as a cock ring), Nipple Clams, and a three inch, tapered, Pleasure Probe.  Use the contact gel to avoid over stimulating any areas e-stim may be taking place, and to enhance the overall connectivity, and effectiveness of the toy. Make sure to use the timer when using the battery setting, or leaving your submissive with a pleasure limit.

So, you’ve picked up your started kit, or were lucky enough to receive it as a gift/ hint. What next? How to step it up to the next level? Three words: Total body massage.

The Fetish Fantasy Shock Therapy Luv Gloves, offer you the opportunity to give yourself, or your partner, a relaxing, all over massage. The electric massage gloves send a seductive charge to the area the gloves touch. The Luv Touch sends a signal to the gloves and the gloves emit the shock, but the Luv Touch can be used solo as a hand massager when switched to “In” mode. Use the “Fast” and “Slow” settings and the dial to fine tune the intensity.

Remember to pick up the Shock Therapy Pleasure Panty. Also, the Butterfly Stim for something which can provide the same therapeutic sensation, and be worn discreetly under clothing. 

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System JO

The System Jo product line is kind of amazing. I’d like to tell you all of the wonders of their personal lubricants, but Volt has to be one of my favorite things that they have offer. Their clitoral stimulating gel is also one of the more fascinating deviations from their usual lube line up. And with the smooth, gliding sensation created by its usual lube: regular, warming, or cooling; the hardest choice is settling on a sensation for your intimate experience.

Finding the ideal Jo product isn’t so much trial and error, as much as it’s find out what System Jo can do for you today. Every day is different, and every Jo product has an hour of the day, and a day of the week.  Let’s say you’ve started your day wearing Jo Pheromone Body Spray, and now find yourself in a position to get lucky. Hell, maybe you turned yourself on. You’re just too irresistible. You’ve used your Jo shave cream, have on your Jo deodorant, and you have had your Jo Elixir. Do you let your freak flag fly, or get down to some beautiful love making?

You’ve now found yourself in a position where lubrication matters. You want the best, long lasting, sensation. Nothing harsh, or too messy, and you want to avoid staining? You have had your experience with tear and go lubes. You’ve used other lubes which seem, altogether, too similar, and you’re worried about quality. Your lubricant says how much you care for your own pleasure, as much as it says how much you care for your partners.

With products for men and women, finding something which suits your play time needs is easy with Jo. The personal lubricants are available in silicone, or, the latex safe, Jo H2O which is a water-based lube. The Hybrid, silicone and water based, lube System Jo provides creates a silky feel and is great for those times when you need a personal touch, or you’re touching another person.

Available in plain ol’ unscented, goodness, System Jo provides a lubricant which is easy to clean up, fun to use and hard to notice. Be it solo, couples, or something involving an adult toy.  Maybe a group of couples, or a couple of solos, all with toys. Jo lubricants are meant to enhance you’re pleasure, and they do a great job. The barely-there feel makes is easy to adjust the amount of glide on contact, and with the options of warming, or cooling sensations, choosing a favorite could be an easy decision, or one of the hardest choices in your intimate history.

With the individual’s pleasure in mind, Jo has specialty items, and they are quite electrifying. Volt, is a product designed by women for women. As a man, I’ve never seen a women enjoy a stimulation product more. Tingling; just tingling. No cooling, no warming, just an exciting, nearly vibrating, tingle from the application of a few drops of serum. Pleasurable, and exhilarating, the buildup of intensity to near climax is astounding.

The clitoral stimulating gel differs somewhat. Bringing about arousal through a mixture of cooling, warming, and tingling, when applied to the intimate area properly, the feeling it creates heightens desire to a whole new level.  After application, the gel responds to contact and creates a pleasure so unique is has to be experienced, to be explained. How else are you going to tell your friends about it through that constant smile? You might find it hard to express yourself to your friends if you’re wearing it throughout a conversation, but you’ll love every moment.

Is your sensitive area a little extra sensitive? First, clean your hands with Jo Foaming Sanitizer, then use Jo Agape for women. It feels like their usual line, but contains no oils, glycerin, or silicone. Washes away clean, and leave no mess.

Say you’re in the mood for a little flavor? Well, with lubes available in flavors from Cherry to Watermelon there’s something for every taste. Containing no wax, oil, or silicone, these mouthwatering flavors will have your partner coming back for more

And for all your foreplay, Jo has something to help during and after. Jo offers an extensive line of massage glides, scented and unscented. Suitable for a rejuvenating rub down, or your next sexual encounter, a single drop of Jo Massage Glide is equal to 10 to 15 drops of other massage oils. The massage glide is silicone based, and it’s silky smooth, never greasy. There is so much more to add, but with this list of want, you’re already going to have an interesting time figuring out how many Jo products will fit on your night stand.

Cock Rings

Achieving a longer, stronger erection, can be done naturally, and in a fun way by simply putting on a cock ring. A cock ring, which may be made of any material, ranging from jelly like to metal, is placed at the base of the penis, and it can be used to extend the duration of intercourse. A cock ring may also be worn to create a sensation of snugness around the region where the ring is placed.

Retaining blood to the penis, the cock ring makes the member more sensitive. Some see it as cock bondage, some see it as orgasm control, but many people who use cock rings say they do so to prolong their sex lives, and to promote sexual health. The length of time which the ring can be worn is up to the user, or occasionally the Dom, and is usually worn just before an erection and throughout the erection's retention.

Beyond the visual appeal, cock rings can be used as a sex toy. Enhancing many aspects of pleasure for the user, and when used in couples play there are a variety of enhancements which the cock ring, pleasingly, provides. While it isn’t typically classified as CBT (cock and ball torture), the range of sizes and materials available add a diversity to cock rings which can allow for pleasurable pain, or painful pleasure. There are cock cages, which may be used, more so, for restraint. They are a more restricting, and many are more elegant in design. Forgoing the pain play, the comfort readily provided by many cock rings is palpable to a hand wrapped perfectly around that right spot.

Excerpt from US en:Patent 995600 by Jonas E. Heyser, depicting a lockable male anti-en:masturbation belt. 

There are Vibrating cock rings which titillate with a barrage of tingles, bring excitement to the wearer, and provide that extra little spark during sex, or masturbation. Some have Clitoral Stimulators which go the extra yard to bring satisfaction to all parties involved. There are double penetrating strap on cock rings, and they add the right bit of spice to any kinky relationship. Another form of a cock ring, or cage, is available in the form of a Sleeve, which can add texture, length, or girth, to your member, so that your partner may partake in the fantasy. The Vibrating cock ring, and the dong create a spectacular element under the sheets.

A lot of the appeal of cock rings lies in their discretion. They can be worn under most underwear, and other articles of clothing. A triple cock ring fits snugly and can be worn around the testicles; all while holding the scrotum and shaft, or head, securely. The textures range from smooth to bumpy, and with the availability of preferences, you may hardly notice that you’re wearing it all, or it may be your full intention to notice every pulsating moment.  Foxy's Toybox offers a fine selection of cock rings for every occasion.

Penis pumps can kick up the action when, safely, and correctly, used in tandem with cock rings. Ask a physician, before you participate in any risky activity, especially if you or your partner suffers from E.D. or any other medical conditions. Or, hey, if it’s a bit of a tease you’re after, an edible candy cock ring might just be the right thing to peak your excitement. Whether you wear your ring for looks, delight, pain, or all of the above, you’re sure to acquire a brand new outlook on your pleasure experience.

Clone Your Parts

Put away your stem cell kit. This isn't your average cloning process. The do it yourself Clone A Pussy, and the Clone A Willy kit only require the packaging, contents and the instructions to replicate any penis or vagina. Leaving your partner with a reminder of the more intimate times spent together is a loving reminder of your affection, and the Clone series is the perfect way to enhance the chemistry between lovers.

Creating a very real, very detailed model of your partners snatch or cock has never been easier. Shockingly life like, it’s almost amusing that a perfect copy of your partners pussy, or cock, or your pair of both, can come from such a simple, and easy, molding process. The perfect souvenir to craft during a romantic rendezvous and leave as a purposeful toy to recreate the sensation of play. Or, something to use in the heat of passion, after it’s admired for the work of beauty it is.

A fun gift for the bachelor, or bachelorette, the Chocolate Clone will brighten up the honeymoon with edible enthrallment. Using the Chocolate Clone A Pussy to tease and demonstrate all the delicious licks coming is just part of the fun. The Clone A Willy comes in many assorted colors, and it makes the ideal keepsake for the couple always on the move.

 Sometimes there just isn't enough time spent together in the day, and moments of relief may not come for hours, days, weeks, maybe even months. Long distance relationship side effects hitting you where it throbs? Attend different colleges? Travel for work? Off on a tour of duty? Get in some time, and get a little messy. Do it on your own or, get some help from your sexy assistant. Follow a few quick steps, and create the perfect item to keep the pleasure coming for your partner, even when you need to be away.

With the Clones copy it’s your partner, every time. Perfect for devoted lovers seeking the perfect toy, the Clone A Willy can be molded with a Vibrator, and is just the thing to keep good loving on your mind. The gratification will be mutual, knowing that you’re always taking care of your lover, and your lover is taking care of you. The ease of these Do It Yourself kits makes it fun and amazing to see your privates in a whole new light.

Speaking of a whole new light, how about anniversary sex romantically lit by your Clone A Willy Candle? It’ll light up your love life the instant you see the realistic appeal of the finished product. Slave coming over? Set the ambiance in a dungeon session with these easy to make candles. Need to find your lover in the dark? Try the Glow In theDark Clone A Willy kit that afternoon, and never have to wake them from their slumber in the late hour.

From the sleek Jet Black Clone A Willy, to the Vibrating Willy, you could have your clone army up and running in no time. The enticing Clone A Pussy will keep you craving more, and it will provide. Have that special one, or make a few. The fun starts as soon as your Clone Kit arrives, and doesn't end until you’re worn yourself from using the replica.

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Restraints

As the shibari style of rope bondage becomes more and more popular, with its ability to create visually stunning designs, and intricate patterns, quite a number of minimalist have shown their fondness for bondage by returning to simpler roots. Foregoing the ropes they have in their collections, for the efficiency and effectiveness resulting from the usage of other restraint systems during play time. These physical restraints provide a beauty all their own, take no time to set up, and offer users the ability to immerse themselves in their fetish, especially so when coupled with blindfolds and ball gags.

From beginner to expert, the inexperienced and the adept can both benefit from the consistency and the effortless quickness of body restraints. As history advances, the techniques and designs of restraint devices advances as well. From, simple loops in nylon rope, to silk sashes, and fur and leather cuffs; the versatility of restraints has greatly distanced itself from the hardcore method of handcuffing, even though a good cuffing never gets old.

Easy to use and set up, there are a number of free standing bondage support systems; prepared so that they are easily set up, slipped on, adjusted, and simple to lock into place.  Some go under your mattress and can remain there. Many of these under the bed sets are easy to keep hidden, with removable cuffs, or lashes which can tuck right under your bed.

There are certain restraint systems which bind the limbs close together, and others which keep the limbs spread apart. To bind together, or to separate? Maybe keep just the wrist bound, with a ball gag, for good measure? Maybe just the ankles bound in a sash, or possibly, Restraint Wrap? You retain the option to bind two limbs, or more, whether they’re near or far. From the sheer delight of Self Bondage, to all of the naughty intricacies of couples play, the possibilities for variety and expressiveness begin the moment you get your Gear, and the fun never ends.

Whether you’re using a premade kit, such as a hogtie kit, or an under the bed system, let us not forget the sensuality which is rope. While some forgo rope due to practicality, or safety concerns, mastering the art of tying knots in rope takes practice and creativity once you’ve stepped away from pre constructed template. .  If you’re using silk, nylon, jute, or cotton, the fascination with being bound, or binding, by rope, sash, or tape is in the preparation. And preparation is key.

If you look up rope bondage how-tos, or nearly any bondage method for the matter, you’ll find articles depicting the human nervous and circulatory systems. The information usually contains a myriad of details about the nerves and veins, and how cutting off is to be avoided; also showing how to do so properly, while maintaining many aesthetics. They’ll also tell you to keep a pair of Safety Scissors handy in case of instances in which the bindings need to be quickly removed.

Studying adult works such as the shibari, and mulling over article after article, detailing the vast bound position possibilities, may not be fore you. Maybe you've done all of the research and you’re ready for a bit of fun? Couples can bond over adult games while bondage is on their mind. Bondage Seduction is a game in which you can tell your friends who wanted to hang out later, that you’re, “tied up”.

But What if you’re trying to skip the knots, and the, well, restraints, of the restraining systems? While there are some limitations with rope, or pre-made systems, Pleasure tape provides a remarkably easy approach to decorative bondage. These wraps, like their rope cousins, come in a wide variety of colors, and they also add a sleek sexiness to the practicing of bondage, and they look even more enticing when against bondage furniture. Whether for play, pleasure, punishment, training, or something else, you’re bound (get it?) to have an excellent time mastering your new fantasy. 

Penis Pumps

So many men are looking for that edge over the competition.  Like the six-million dollar man, he wants to be better, stronger, faster… and bigger!  And then there was the advent of the enlargement pump.  Penis pumps, or, enlargement pumps, all work on the same principle.  The penis is inserted into a vacuum chamber that seals against the man’s pelvis.  Vacuum is applied, creating a pressure differential between the blood in the penis and the outside atmosphere.  The blood vessels expand, allowing more blood into the penis.  And blood in the penis, as we all know, is what makes a man big and hard.  The theory behind vacuum pumps is simply this:  More blood = more penis.  The effect is temporary, but impressive.

Enhancement pumps usually consist of an acrylic tube and a hand pump or electric pump.  The Acrylic tube will the vacuum tube on one end, and often some sort of rubber or silicone sleeve (or ring) on the open end. The sleeve is used to create a seal against the body. Recently, these sleeves have been modified to take on an anatomical resemblance  Some pumps will also have a vacuum gauge that allows you to monitor the pressure being applied to your member.  And all pumps will have a pressure releif valve.  Some tubes will also have graduated hash marks, allowing the user to monitor the growth of their penis.  A few pumps are coming equipped with massagers to give an added element of stimulation to the experience.  Some pumps are designed for shower use, and can also be used with a hands-free harness.

Although mostly thought of as an enhancement device, penis pumps are an easy, non-invasive treatment for erectile dysfunction.  The vacuum is activated via hand or electric pump, then a constriction band is applied at the base of the penis (similar to a cock ring) to keep the blood from flowing back out of the penis. In the medical field they are often referred to as “vacuum constriction devices”.   Many urologists will recommend them when good ‘ol Viagra is ineffective. 

Please be careful when using a pump.  Always keep moderation in mind.  Excessive vacuum and/or prolonged use can cause serious vascular damage to your penis.  Also, if you ever use a cock ring with your pump, be careful to NOT use a metal cock ring.  The penis can often swell and the ring may have to be cut off.  And nobody wants that.

Many pumps can be accessorized with some interesting options.  And don’t forget your toy cleaner.

Men’s Underwear

Often times we men overlook some of the softer luxuries in life.  And, as far as I’m concerned, “silky underbritches” is due for some serious contemplation.  Yeah, yeah.  We’re too manly to talk about underwear.  “I’m a real man and only wear burlap… like my daddy before me.”  Not me, baby.  “Give me something fun under my business suit”, that’s what I say!

Men’s wear can be classified in four different categories: Lounge wear, Boxers, Briefs, and Thongs/pouches.  All of which come in handy for just the right purpose.

I’m more of a boxer man, myself.  I like the comfort and roominess.  Briefs are great for when I’m more active.  I must admit, though, I’m a bit reluctant to strap on nuthin’ but a pouch.  I keep my car and house fully insured, and I guess I feel the same way about my bits and pieces.  There is another benefit of the roominess of a good boxer.  Every now and then it’s nice to find someone’s hand rummaging around under your waistband.  It’s good to have space for them to explore, dont'cha know.

The bikini brief runs the gambit from good coverage to bad, bad play time!  Want something uncommon?  Check out Foxy’s Stretch Lace Wonder Bikini from Male Power.  Polyester and Spandex, machine washable, partner “wow”able! Show up with a pair of these on and you’re going home with a prize.

And my favorite is the marriage of boxers and briefs, the Boxer Brief.  The security of a brief with the leg length of a boxer gives me both comfort and security.  And the longer leg keeps the fabric from bunching up in places we don’t want it to go.  Nothing classier than picking a wad of cotton out of your crack in the middle of a cocktail party or sales call, eh?  The boxer brief fixes that little problem right up.

I must sing the praises of a pair of nice loungers.  Just the right thing for a long weekend “staying in” with the little lady.  Just slip them on, pad down to the kitchen for a cup of coffee and a quick peek out the door for the Sunday paper, and back up for Sudoku and snuggling.

Talk about breathability, the mesh pouch by Adonis leaves little to the imagination… and much to the breeze.  Designed more for show than utility, it serves its purpose quite impressively.  Drop your robe with one of these little strips of cloth winking in the candlelight, and your partner won’t be able to keep her/his hands off of you.  Champaign not included.

Are you into saving the planet?  Foxy’s Toybox offers an impressive line of bamboo lounge pants, boxers, briefs, t-shirts and thongs.  They are a blend of 95% sustainable bamboo and 5% spandex.  Comfort, reliability, and ecological maturity… You gotta love it!

Dance Poles

In the last few years we’ve come a long way accepting different forms of bedroom play as “normal” or “ordinary”.   Where they were considered taboo or kink not so long ago, they are slowly moving toward mainstream acceptance.  I’ve heard flippant jokes about BDSM on prime-time comedy shows seen platform “dancer” shoes at the neighborhood pub; edgy tattoos and piercings at the DMV.  Kink has finally become commonplace.

 And one of the most beneficial practices that has graduated from taboo to acceptable is the fine art of pole dancing.  Many of the gentlemen’s clubs in my area have Amateur Night events, where anyone can climb up onto the stage and strut her stuff.  And pole dancing isn’t just for enticement anymore.  It has become a respected and very effective form of exercise.  Just about every middle-class suburb has (you guessed it!) pole-dancing exercise classes.  “Work your core while driving your hubby crazy”.  Sounds great to me!

Foxy’s Toybox offers dance poles that are made specifically for the home user.  This is got to be one of the best things yet.  Poles can be permanently mounted, or, some are even portable, allowing you to quickly and easily get them out of sight if you’re having “sensitive” company come over for dinner. 

Pole dancing can really spice up a relationship.  A couple spins and flips will make date night unforgettable.  You can purchase an entire “fantasy” kit, with pole, music cd, feathery boa, and play money.  Many times suggestive outfits can be worn to make the fantasy even more realistic.  Want realism?  Try adding club lighting to the night.  All you’ll need are some watered down drinks and overpriced valet service and you’ve got the whole package!

And, as an added bonus, the dance pole is the only piece of exercise equipment you can’t pile a bunch of clothes on when you’re too busy to work out. ;)

As a cautionary note, please, please, please, study a bit before getting acrobatic on a pole.  A twisted ankle or pulled muscle can really put a damper on playtime.  Instructional books are available.  And the books can also give you some great ideas for combining simple poses and dance steps.  You’ll look like a pro in no time!

Vibrating Panties

Say, what’s that muted buzzing you hear?  Just find the woman with beads of sweat on her brow and a far-off look in her eye.  Yeah, the one with the table cloth bunched up in her hand.  Yes, sir, it’s the age of the vibrating panties!  There are few things more exciting than the secret joy of vibrating panties, or as my friend Suzanne calls them, Shaky Britches.  It’s the ultimate “down-low” toy:  Calm on the outside, wild on the inside.

Many of us have a secret fantasy life.  I personally believe the vibrating panty is the perfect way to get that secret thrill we look for in a public place.  They are perfectly discreet, giving you anywhere from mild to intense pleasure, without the person next to you having the slightest clue as to what’s going on.  One cautionary note, though.  If you’re sitting on a wooden bench, everybody else on that bench will be in on your secret pretty quickly.  Of course, that could be a thrill, too.  You can watch them try to figure out who’s buzzing the bench.  Or see, who leaves and who stays… ooh, that sounds fun!

Foxy’s Toybox offers an impressive line of vibrating panties.  Whether you want something discrete to add a little hum to your evening, or a remote control option to give your partner some say in the play.  Vibrating panties usually come with a panty made with a pocket to hold the massager.  But now days, there are options that include magnetic vibrators that attach to any garment, or strapless “thong” type panties that actually hug the crotch and hold themselves up.

As far as remote controlled vibrators go, most work up to 10 or 15 feet away.  There’s nothing like giving the remote to your partner and letting him/her control what you get and when you get it.  Like just as the waiter comes up to take your dinner order, or on the dance floor, or while the valet is helping you out of the car.  The surprises are endless.

Club Vibe2.0

My favorite remote is the ClubVibe 2.0 by OhMiBod.  Not only is it remotely controlled with five different vibration patterns, but the remote has a microphone built in.  It can be set to pulse to the dance music.  Now that’s feeling the beat!  But, best of all, it can also be actuated by your partner’s voice if you’re in a quiet enough room.  Imagine your man telling you to squirm… and you have no choice.

It’s important to note the size before ordering.  Some panties are, of course, small, medium, large, or extra-large.  Many are stretchable, to accommodate a range of sizes.  There is even a strapless thong for larger women.

One good thing about all vibrating panties is this, you can remove the device before tossing the panty into the wash.  After all, if they do their job right, you will need to wash the panties (wink).  And please, please, remember to get a good toy cleaner to keep your massager fresh and pleasant.  

Ben Wa and Kegel Balls

The origin of Ben Wa balls is shrouded in mystery, lies and hyperbole.  Ok, that’s a bit harsh, but the truth is, their origin is more speculation than fact.  They were definitely developed in the Orient, and some say near the Ming dynasty period, possibly in the 15^th century.  They were originally used as a single ball, inserted into the vagina, to enhance the man’s pleasure during sex.  It is believed that the first Ben Wa balls were repurposed Bauding balls.  But, again, there is no evidence to support this claim.

 Women, of course, figured out pretty quickly how good these little gems felt rolling around in their vaginas, and started using them for their own pleasure and sexual enhancement.  Many Ben Wa balls come in decorative, pillowed boxes, and can be purchased in different sizes, depending on the skill level of the user.  Larger balls for the novice user, and smaller balls for those who have developed their pelvic floor muscles.  The smaller the balls, of course, the more effort it takes to keep them in.

Ben Wa balls can be miskaken for Bauding balls, and vice versa.  Bauding exercise balls are hollow spheres with a weighted ball and chime inside.  The two balls are held in one hand and rotated around each other, building hand strength, dexterity, whereas Ben Wa balls are often solid and weighted.  The balls are often used in physical therapy after an accident or injury.  The repetitive motion and pleasant sound of the chimes also relieves stress.  In recent years, a string or chain has been added to aid in the retrieval of the balls.  These are often referred to as Kegel balls.

Kegel Exercise Cross-Section

Kegel balls are named after gynecologist, Arnold Kegel, who invented the Kegel perineometer (to measure the strength of pelvic floor muscles.  Dr. Kegel spent a lot of time researching female genital prolapse and urinary stress incontinence at USC, and developed a series of exercised designed to strengthen women’s’ pelvic floor muscles, thus alleviating these conditions.  He published his findings in 1948, and it wasn’ t long after that people started using the balls along with Dr. Kegel’s exercise program.

Kegel exercisers can also be found in barbell form, electro-stimulators, vibrating balls, lighted, glow-in-the-dark, and a staggering variety of sizes and colors. 

 2011 saw a national run on Ben Wa / Kegal balls when they were brought to the spotlight through the hit novel series, “Fifty Shades of Grey”.  Fortunately, manufacturers across the globe have retooled their production facilities, added staff and shifts and are manufacturing balls at an impressive rate.  “Fifty Shades” is scheduled to release a movie version of the books in summer 2013.  And as more and more of mainstream America is introduced to these magical spheres, I predict another shortage.

 Ben Wa and/or Kegel balls, like any other item inserted into the vagina, must be kept clean.  Always use a quality toy cleaner before and after use.  And don’t forget a nice lubricant.  For added sensation, try a warming or cooling lube, found here at Foxy’s Toybox.  Also, please, check what material your balls are made of.  Many plastics and rubbers do not play well with silicone lubricants.  You may want to stick to water-based and (my personal favorite) gel lubes.

PLEASURE TAPE

Many people start squirming uncomfortably when the word “bondage” is thrown into a conversation. Of course, others start squirming for much more sensual reasons when the word “bondage” is mentioned. But we don’t need to explain too much about that here.

The truth is, there are tons of us out there who are open to exploration during their play time, but don’t know where to start, or what toys to experiment with. Many people turn to the ol’ tried and true duct tape. Then, when attempting to free their partner from the tape, they find the adhesive has a mind of its own. This has a way of mitigating the bondage experience. And possibly turning someone away from it for good.


One of the most versatile pleasure play items in the bondage family is tape, or as many call it, Pleasure Tape. Pleasure tape is made of self-sticking vinyl. What does that mean? Well, well, it means that you can play all you want and never have to worry about icky adhesives sticking to your clothes and skin and pulling all the hairs out of your arms. It only sticks to itself, not you. And it’s an inexpensive entry point for beginners exploring bondage for the first time.

What can you do with pleasure tape? Many will bind hands or feet. Some will wrap their partner all the way up to the elbows. The wrists and ankles can be tied to bedposts, wrist to ankle, arm to thigh, or any configuration you can dream up. The options are countless. Pleasure tape can also be wrapped around your partner’s body and be used as costume clothing.

Many people will incorporate blindfolds into their tape play. Others will bring riding crops or feather play into the arena, also. Vinyl pleasure tape can be unwound, cleaned and used again in your next play session; making it a better value than single-use adhesive tape.

It is always important to play responsibly. One should always have a safe word established with your play partner. A word or phrase that means “stop now”. Many will say something like “Peanut Butter” or “Door Knob”. Something that is easily recognized and not likely used during sex play. While participating in bondage play, one should always be aware of binding too tightly and cutting off your partner’s circulation. Check often while tying, to make sure the skin doesn’t bulge between strips of tape. Lay the tape flat and don’t let it twist. Check for fingers and toes turning white or growing cold. Ask your partner often if they’re comfortable, experiencing any tingling or pinching. If so, stop, unwrap, and start again with a looser wrap. Always leave your partner with some way to communicate with you. Another key safety practice is to have blunt-nosed safety scissors nearby in case your partner needs to be released quickly.


Pleasure tape has found a home in the Piercing world, also. It works perfectly as a stretching aid. While many have traditionally used electrical tape for stretching, the adhesive in the tape often causes irritation, swelling and can lead to nasty infections. Vinyl pleasure tape, on the other hand, is perfectly safe. Just wrap a layer or two around your plug, add just a touch of petroleum jelly for lubrication, and slip right into the ear hole being stretched. Pleasure tape will never cause irritation.

PROSTATE MASSAGERS

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So, what is the prostate? The prostate is part of the male reproductive system. It secretes the slightly alkaline milky substance that forms part of the seminal fluid that transports sperm. Sperm is produced in the testicles, which also make the male hormone testosterone. Testosterone stimulates the growth and function of the prostate during puberty, and also makes prostatic fluid for semen.

During sexual climax (orgasm), the muscles of the prostate contract to push semen through the urethra and out the penis. The urethra also carries urine. When the penis is erect during sexual intercourse, the flow of urine is blocked from the urethra, allowing only semen to be ejaculated at orgasm

A prostate massager refers to devices for massaging the prostate gland, mainly for sexual purposes.



The shape of a prostate massager is similar to a finger, since prostate massages are traditionally given digitally. They usually have a slightly curved head to effectively massage the prostate. A prostate massager should be used with care because of the sensitivity of the prostate. Correct use involves a medium to light repetitive massage, or circular motion—the tool should never be thrusted.

Prostate massage equipment ranges from dildos tobutt plugs and G-spot vibrators. When used in sexual practice, prostate massagers are commonly referred to as "prostate toys" and "anal toys". These prostate massagers are inserted into the rectum through the anus and are intended to stimulate the prostate by simple massaging or vibrating. They are used during foreplay by many couples.

Prostate stimulation is thought to produce stronger and more powerful orgasms similar to orgasms in women produced by G-spot stimulation.

Prostate dildos are similar to the vaginal dildos, but they tend to be more curved, slimmer and with a softer texture. Some of the new prostate dildos on the market are driven by batteries and offer vibration at the tip, which may be changed depending on the personal preference. Unlike the vaginal dildos, the anal prostate massager has a flared end to prevent from being lost in the rectum.

Many men prefer butt plugs, which are easy to use, can be inserted freely and left in place while the man's hands are free for other sexual activities such as masturbation. Anal plugs come also in various shapes, sizes and designs and although they are not commonly intended to stimulate the prostate, newer models of more angled butt plugs are now developed to provide a more vigorous massage to the prostate. The new butt plugs have a more curved shape and they are slightly longer than the regular anal plugs. They commonly have a narrow neck and a flared end to prevent losing it in the rectum. Some of the newer models come with batteries and wireless remotes that increase sexual pleasure.

*It’s important to note that prostate massagers should never be used if you have acute prostatitis, because the infection can spread elsewhere in the body if massage is performed. It’s also important to lubricate your toy and your body before insertion and massage. Always use a quality anal lube and have plenty of toy cleaner on hand.

Prostate massage has been around for nearly 2,000 years. There is more to prostate massagers than just sexual pleasure. One can also achieve a significant health benefit from occasionally milking the prostate gland.

NIPPLE CLAMPS

Nipple clamps, eh? So, the big question is this: Are nipple clamps for the dom to enjoy or for the sub? Wonderfully, it’s pretty fantastic for both! Doms get the erotic thrill of seeing the clamps on their favorite pet. And the sub, well… they get the big thrill. Have you noticed that I’m not talking about just women? Yes, Virginia, men can be clamped, too. Any nipple is fair game.

Nipple clamps work like this. The clamp, usually clip, or sometimes two thin sticks held together with rubber bands, are placed on the erect nipples. They restrict blood flow, causing the nipple to become engorged and very sensitive. She also gets a rush of sensation when the clamps are removed.

Barring the homemade varieties, and some of the more radical inventions out there, you can find three major types of clamp on the market:

Tweezer Clamps – usually thin strips of metal or wood, connected at one end and open at the other. The open end of the camps may be covered with rubber or vinyl to protect the wearers’ sensitive flesh. After all, these babies are used for enjoyment, not extracting national secrets. There is often a rubber band around the lower end of the strips, used to adjust the amount of pressure applied.
Butterfly Clamps – By far the most exquisite looking. Butterfly clamps are almost exclusively metal, they do not have soft pads to protect the skin. These are the most painful of the three. Best used for the most pressure. Butterfly Clamps, along with Clothespin Clamps are often used when a dom wants to clamp skin elsewhere on the body of the sub. This is serious BDSM stuff and can be very painful.

Clothespin Clamps – These are the most common type of nipple clamp. They are hinged with a spring in the center of the two metal/wood strips much like a laundry clothespin. They will often have rubber or vinyl covers ofe the ends to protect the user’s skin, and may also have a thumb screw stopper to adjust the amount of pressure applied. In recent years, Clothespin Clamps can be fitted with small vibrating nodules, similar to bullet massagers. This adds weight to the clamps, pulling downward on the nipple and giving the user a very nice buzz, too.

Nipple clamps of all varieties are often connected by a metal chain adding variety to the play. Some will also be fitted with weights. The chains and weights can used to tug on the nipples and increase sensation for the user, or train a slave to hold still during a session. Nipple Clamps can also be purchased with hanging jewelry, to make your play partner even sexier.

Please use caution while using nipple clamps. Check often with your sub to make sure they aren’t being harmed. Play is fun, irreversible harm is cruelty. And none of us here want to cross that line. If play gets too intense, have a numbing spray or cream handy to help your sub feel better quickly.

And it’s always good to reward a compliant partner with something edible. Foxy’s Toybox now offers the GoodHead line of suckers. They are availabe in a variety of delicious flavors, and are formulated to excite the saliva glands. And I don’t have to tell you how that can enhance playtime.

Play safely, please be mindful of your partner’s comfort level. And, as always, use a quality toy cleaner when done.